Becoming What You Need | 中英双语基础课程

16-week Foundation · English with live Chinese translation16周基础课程 · 英语授课,配有现场中文口译

Becoming What You Need成为你所需要的

A Foundation for Embodying Nonviolent Communication让非暴力沟通融入身心的非暴力沟通

Featuring the Spiral Blend —David’s newest refinement of Somatic Consensus for bringing NVC into everyday life.课程核心:螺旋融合——David 对身心共识的最新提炼,帮助你将非暴力沟通带入日常生活。

Begins Saturday, February 13, 2027 · 9 a.m. Beijing time2027年2月13日(星期六)北京时间上午9点开课16 weeks16周10 modules10个模块Live online + recordings在线直播+课程录像
People practicing attentive, embodied connection

The Foundation in Somatic Consensus身心共识基础课程

You know the language. Can your body find it?你熟悉这些语言。你的身体能找到它们吗?

Somatic Consensus is a somatic approach to Nonviolent Communication. It brings the distinctions of NVC into the living body through nervous-system awareness, movement, relational practice, and the cultivation of choice.身心共识是一种通过身体实践非暴力沟通的方法。通过对神经系统的觉察、身体运动、关系练习以及选择能力的培养,将非暴力沟通的核心区分带入鲜活的身体经验。

You may understand empathy, needs, observations, and honest expression—yet in the heat of a real moment, attention narrows and old patterns return. This Foundation helps you build a personal practice so presence, relationship, and choice become more available when they matter most.你也许理解同理心、需要、观察和真诚表达,但在真实而紧张的时刻,注意力会收窄,旧有模式会再次出现。本基础课程帮助你建立个人练习,让临在、连接和选择在最需要的时刻更容易实现。

“Somatic Consensus is an opportunity to transform how you communicate with yourself and the world—understanding the importance of love and empathy.”“身心共识提供了一个机会,让你转变与自己和世界沟通的方式,理解爱与同理心的重要性。”— Reggie Townsend
The Spiral Blend Map — 螺旋融合地图

The newest refinement of Somatic Consensus身心共识的最新提炼

The Spiral Blend: a somatic map for embodying Nonviolent Communication.螺旋融合:让非暴力沟通融入身心的地图。

The Spiral Blend helps you bring NVC into moments of activation, uncertainty, and conflict.螺旋融合帮助你在被触动、不确定和冲突的时刻实践非暴力沟通。

Move among its vantage points to return to the body, find resources, listen for what matters, and respond with greater choice.在地图的不同视角之间移动,回到身体,找到资源,倾听重要之事,并以更多选择作出回应。

Sense感知Track breath, sensation, emotion, posture, and impulse.觉察呼吸、身体感觉、情绪、姿势和冲动。
Resource汲取资源Return to steadiness, support, and a wider field of attention.回归稳定、支持与更宽广的注意力场域。
Relate连接Listen beneath words and meet difference with curiosity.倾听言语之下的生命,以好奇心面对差异。
Act行动Speak, set boundaries, repair, and choose what comes next.表达、设立界限、修复关系,并选择下一步。

In the Foundation,在基础课程中,you use Spiral Blend to build a personal practice for deepening relationships and becoming who you want to become. Learning to share the map with others is developed in the你将运用螺旋融合建立个人练习,深化关系,成为你想成为的人。带领他人使用地图的能力将在以下课程中进一步发展:Advanced Training进阶培训.

16 weeks · Ten modules16周 · 10个模块

A clear arc from inner awareness to compassionate action.从内在觉察到慈悲行动的清晰学习路径。

Each module combines concepts, demonstration, guided somatic practice, relational exercises, and time to integrate the learning into daily life.每个模块结合概念、示范、引导式身体练习、关系练习,以及将学习融入日常生活的时间。

MODULES 01–03模块01–03

Come home to the body回到身体的家

  • Ground and center yourself in what matters to you.立足于对你重要的事,安住并回归中心。
  • Work with overwhelm and regain balance, inner guidance, and choice.面对不堪重负的状态,重新获得平衡、内在指引与选择。
  • Calm your system and listen to the wisdom and resources of your body.让身心安定下来,倾听身体的智慧与资源。
MODULES 04–06模块04–06

Meet patterns with choice以选择面对惯性模式

  • Recognize old reactions and turn habitual patterns into resources for connection.识别旧有反应,将习惯模式转化为连接的资源。
  • Listen deeply to your needs and discover new possibilities.深深倾听自己的需要,发现新的可能。
  • Find your ground for empowered words and actions.找到内在立足点,让言语和行动更有力量。
  • Receive support from relationships, community, place, and nature.从关系、社群、地方与大自然中获得支持。
MODULES 07–10模块07–10

Relate, repair, and act连接、修复与行动

  • Listen with empathy while staying connected to yourself.以同理心倾听,同时与自己保持连接。
  • Move between listening openly and speaking your truth with care.在开放倾听与关怀地表达真实之间流动。
  • Work through misunderstandings and find common ground.化解误解,寻找共同点。
  • Create solutions together and take action that honors everyone’s needs.共同创造解决方案,采取尊重每个人需要的行动。
Explore all ten modules查看全部10个模块
01Entering the Spiral Blend走进螺旋融合Orientation, centering, S.U.R.F., resourcing, and pendulation.课程导向、回归中心、S.U.R.F.、汲取资源与摆动练习。
02Come Home to the Body回到身体的家Notice breath, sensation, emotion, posture, attention, and impulse.觉察呼吸、身体感觉、情绪、姿势、注意力与冲动。
03Wind—Self-Regulation风——自我调节Create enough space to choose through breath, movement, and widened attention.通过呼吸、运动和拓宽注意力,创造足够的选择空间。
04Core Strategies核心策略Meet defending, withdrawing, appeasing, controlling, and freezing with curiosity.以好奇心面对防御、退缩、讨好、控制和僵住的反应。
05The Ground You Stand On你的立足之地Listen for the need beneath reaction and stand for what matters.倾听反应背后的需要,为重要之事站稳脚跟。
06Resourcing Our Relationships从关系中汲取资源Receive support from people, place, ancestors, community, and nature.从人、地方、祖辈、社群与大自然中获得支持。
07Empathic Connection同理连接Practice deep listening, timing, humility, and the empathic guess.练习深度倾听、把握时机、保持谦逊和作出同理猜测。
08The Empathy–Honesty Pulse同理与真诚表达的脉动Move between receiving and expressing, with boundaries and care.在接收与表达之间流动,同时保持界限与关怀。
09Mutual Strategies共同策略Bring inner and outer consensus into relationship and include concerns.将内在与外在的共识带入关系,并容纳各方顾虑。
10Compassionate Action慈悲行动Choose, speak, commit, and act with embodied power.以身体承载的力量作出选择、表达、承诺和行动。
The Spiral Blend Companion Workbook by David Weinstock

Included with the program课程包含

Your practice resources.你的练习资源。

Our online learning community includes the Spiral Blend workbook, visual maps, recordings, and reflection prompts to support your practice between sessions.我们的在线学习社群提供螺旋融合练习手册、视觉地图、课程录像和反思提示,支持你在课间持续练习。

“The seeds planted during the training are still sprouting in my body, taking root and helping me navigate life with the deepest respect for all beings.”“培训期间种下的种子仍在我的身体里发芽、扎根,帮助我怀着对所有生命最深的尊重走过生活。”— Kirsten Elfandahl

The rhythm of learning学习的节奏

Practice over time, accelerated through community.持续练习,在社群支持中加深学习。

Embodied learning grows through repetition: learning something, trying it, receiving feedback, and returning again. A cohort accelerates that process. Others help us see what we cannot see alone, and relationship becomes part of the practice itself.身体学习通过重复而成长:学习、尝试、获得反馈,再次回到练习。稳定的学习小组能加快这一过程。他人帮助我们看见独自难以察觉的部分,而关系本身也成为练习的一部分。

Weekly learning每周学习课16 weekly learning sessions led by David Weinstock, with live English-to-Chinese interpretation, concepts, demonstrations, guided somatic practices, and integration.16次由 David Weinstock 带领的每周学习课,配有现场英译中口译,内容包括概念、示范、引导式身体练习与整合。
Weekly practice每周练习课16 weekly practice sessions led by our support trainers and an experienced translator, with partner work, questions, feedback, and support for embodiment.16次由支持培训师和经验丰富的译员带领的每周练习课,包括伙伴练习、问答、反馈与身心整合支持。
Your learning schedule学习时间Begins Saturday, February 13, 2027, at 9 a.m. Beijing time. First session: Friday, February 12, at 5 p.m. Pacific Standard Time.2027年2月13日(星期六)北京时间上午9点开始。首堂课对应美国太平洋标准时间2月12日(星期五)下午5点。
Cohort learning同伴共学A consistent group supports connection, diverse perspectives, and continuity for deep learning.稳定的小组支持连接、多元视角和深入学习所需的连续性。

Meet twice each week. Recordings, the workbook, and course materials are included.每周相聚两次。课程包含录像、练习手册和学习资料。

David Weinstock and participants in an online learning community
Weekly practice: A one-hour session led by our support trainers and an experienced translator.每周一小时的练习课由支持培训师和经验丰富的译员共同带领,支持整个学习小组的持续练习。

Who this is for适合谁参加

For people who want presence, not performance.适合希望真实临在,而非追求表现的人。

No trainer identity is required. Beginners and experienced NVC practitioners are welcome. What matters is a willingness to practice, listen, feel, and learn through the body.无需具备培训师身份。欢迎初学者与有经验的非暴力沟通实践者。重要的是愿意练习、倾听、感受,并通过身体学习。

Begin with what matters to you and build a practice for daily life.从对你重要的事开始,建立日常生活中的练习。
Listen to your body and recognize feelings and needs sooner.倾听身体,更早觉察感受与需要。
Find steadiness and regain balance when emotions overwhelm you.情绪汹涌时,找到稳定,恢复平衡。
Recognize habitual reactions and respond with greater choice.识别习惯性反应,以更多选择作出回应。
Understand your needs and stand for what matters with care.理解自己的需要,怀着关怀为重要之事站稳脚跟。
Draw on your strengths and the support of others.运用自身优势,接受他人的支持。
Listen with empathy while staying connected to yourself.以同理心倾听,同时与自己保持连接。
Speak honestly, make clear requests, and set boundaries with care.真诚表达、提出清晰请求,并关怀地设立界限。
Find common ground and create solutions that honor everyone’s needs.寻找共同点,创造尊重每个人需要的解决方案。
Take decisive action aligned with your values—and follow through.采取符合价值观的果断行动,并坚持落实。

Four streams · One living practice四条源流 · 一体的生命实践

Nonviolent Communication非暴力沟通Needs, empathy, honesty, and life-serving action.需要、同理心、真诚表达与服务生命的行动。
Somatics身心学The body as a source of intelligence, learning, and transformation.身体是智慧、学习与转变的源泉。
Aikido合气道Centering, blending, timing, and power without domination.回归中心、融合、把握时机,以及不支配他人的力量。
Consensus & Community共识与社群Hearing every voice while practicing conflict, accountability, and repair.听见每个声音,练习面对冲突、承担责任与修复关系。
David Weinstock

Study with David Weinstock跟随 David Weinstock 学习

David is the founder of Liminal Somatics and originator of Somatic Consensus and the Spiral Blend. An international NVC trainer, somatic coach, fourth-degree Aikido practitioner, and author of Becoming What You Need , he brings more than four decades of embodied practice to the meeting of conflict, relationship, and compassionate action.David 是 Liminal Somatics 的创始人,也是身心共识与螺旋融合的创立者。他是国际非暴力沟通培训师、身心教练、合气道四段习练者,并著有成为你所需要的。他将四十多年的身体实践带入冲突、关系与慈悲行动的交汇之处。

“It has given me an intrinsic trust in myself and the group, allowing me to open to parts of myself I was not able to open to before… so I’m not afraid of being afraid. So I can start to be free.”“这让我对自己和团体产生了内在的信任,使我能够向过去无法敞开的自我部分敞开……于是我不再害怕恐惧,开始能够自由。”— Shana Deane

Tuition & enrollment学费与报名

Choose the level that matches your capacity.选择符合你经济能力的档位。

Every tuition option leads into the same complete Foundation experience.每个学费选项都包含同样完整的基础课程体验。

Supported支持价

Supported Tuition支持学费

$1,250

For participants for whom the standard rate would create genuine financial strain.适用于支付标准学费会造成实际经济压力的学员。

Choose Supported选择支持价
Contributor贡献价

Contributor Tuition贡献学费

$1,950

For those able to help sustain supported places for the wider community.适用于有能力支持社群中更多学员获得支持名额的人。

Choose Contributor选择贡献价
Payment Plan分期付款

Four Payments分四期支付

$400

Spread tuition across four payments while receiving the same full experience.将学费分四期支付,同时享有相同的完整课程体验。

4 Monthly Payments每月付款,共四期
Returning participants receive 50% off.返课学员享受半价优惠。

More practice can reveal greater nuance. If you have completed one of David’s Foundations—or an equivalent program—you are invited to return and deepen.更多练习能带来更细腻的体会。如果你已完成 David 的基础课程或同等课程,欢迎回来继续深化。

Access & tuition support参与机会与学费支持

Choosing with care怀着关怀作出选择

We invite you to choose with honesty—caring for your own needs while also considering the resources required to sustain the teaching team, scholarships, and the wider learning community. Those who are able to choose a contributor rate help make supported places possible for others.我们邀请你诚实选择,照顾自己的需要,同时考虑维持教学团队、奖学金和整个学习社群所需的资源。有能力选择贡献价的学员,将帮助其他人获得支持名额。

Requesting Support申请支持

Please send a brief note sharing:请简要来信说明:

  • the program you would like to join你希望参加的课程
  • the tuition amount or monthly payment you can realistically offer你实际能够承担的学费或每月付款金额
  • whether partial scholarship support would make participation possible部分奖学金支持是否能帮助你参加

No lengthy application or proof of hardship is required. We will respond personally and look together for an arrangement that respects both your circumstances and the sustainability of the program.无需填写冗长申请或提供经济困难证明。我们会亲自回复,共同寻找既尊重你的处境,也支持课程持续开展的安排。

If finances are the primary obstacle, please reach out before deciding that the program is not available to you.如果经济是主要障碍,请先联系我们,再决定是否放弃参加。

To request tuition support, contact:申请学费支持,请联系: